Tonight I made dinner like I do every night, tonight we had Mac and Cheese ,Green Beans, and Chicken fingers in hot sauce, We gathered as normal eating and talking about today but there was something missing, Christian, He loved my homemade wing sauce he used to eat green beans out of a can cold and he LOVED his Mamma's Mac and Cheese, we researched a starter for his 300EX on ebay We looked at pictures and wished he was here to laugh with us, but he isnt I am sick of the school denying their fault, OWN UP, ACCEPT your PART in my SONS DEATH! YOU OWE HIM THAT and HIS FAMILY!
Lisa
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
What do you do?
What exactly do you do when you send your child to school and the teachers have been the ones bullying your child??
I was lucky none of my teachers when I was young tried to bully me, but as a parent it would be on like Donkey Kong if you were screwing with my child, I am a mouthy very oppinated woman and since Christian's death even more bitchy, I dare people to screw with me, I don't like you I WILL tell you, you screw with my family you've had it but should you be a teacher and you are bullying students I AM your worse nightmare, I don't care where you are Teachers who bully are worse then the students who are bullying, as kids we put our trust in them we are suppose to deem them safe (my son had one person he adored here and she is fantastic and he had several at LORMS in Texas that he loved and they loved him just as equally back and were just if not more devastated by his death)
When we send out kids to school they are suppose to be safe, Yes when they are in school THEY ARE under the teachers and admin's watch and THEY are responsible for our kids,As parents we cant do anything at all about what happens in school accept follow the correct procedures to make sure the schools know about the problems, and they fix it even when it comes down to bullying they have a Zero Tolerance than USE IT! our kids lives are in your hands for 6 hours a day, and if you don't do what you as a teacher,admin,OR school board then HELL YES you are and should be held accountable, My life is bring up and raising my kids and I really don't care if you don't like the way I do it,because when it comes to my kids they ARE MY kids not yours and your opinion is just that YOURS and you really aren't important enough to my family unit for me to take your opinion seriously, (to be clear yes I just said I DON'T CARE!)
Bitter and Angry you ask?? Yes I am because my son is dead people in Yorktown think they can judge me and the school screwed up and is too stupid to admit they are wrong, they love claiming this and that but how's about you actually admit the fault you had, admit you let the freaking PUNK get AWAY with it and lets all move on, oh wait no that wont happen because that would mean they would have to take some sort of responsibility for their actions and now we cant have that can we??
Yes I am a woman with a mission and I take it seriously ,you threaten my kids YOU THREATEN ME! Thank you for that line but it is true, I am a Mom and I above all take THAT job seriously.
And if I should find out that a teacher IS bullying someone at ANY school that teacher and the Admin need watch it because I will damn sure make your life a living hell....
I was lucky none of my teachers when I was young tried to bully me, but as a parent it would be on like Donkey Kong if you were screwing with my child, I am a mouthy very oppinated woman and since Christian's death even more bitchy, I dare people to screw with me, I don't like you I WILL tell you, you screw with my family you've had it but should you be a teacher and you are bullying students I AM your worse nightmare, I don't care where you are Teachers who bully are worse then the students who are bullying, as kids we put our trust in them we are suppose to deem them safe (my son had one person he adored here and she is fantastic and he had several at LORMS in Texas that he loved and they loved him just as equally back and were just if not more devastated by his death)
When we send out kids to school they are suppose to be safe, Yes when they are in school THEY ARE under the teachers and admin's watch and THEY are responsible for our kids,As parents we cant do anything at all about what happens in school accept follow the correct procedures to make sure the schools know about the problems, and they fix it even when it comes down to bullying they have a Zero Tolerance than USE IT! our kids lives are in your hands for 6 hours a day, and if you don't do what you as a teacher,admin,OR school board then HELL YES you are and should be held accountable, My life is bring up and raising my kids and I really don't care if you don't like the way I do it,because when it comes to my kids they ARE MY kids not yours and your opinion is just that YOURS and you really aren't important enough to my family unit for me to take your opinion seriously, (to be clear yes I just said I DON'T CARE!)
Bitter and Angry you ask?? Yes I am because my son is dead people in Yorktown think they can judge me and the school screwed up and is too stupid to admit they are wrong, they love claiming this and that but how's about you actually admit the fault you had, admit you let the freaking PUNK get AWAY with it and lets all move on, oh wait no that wont happen because that would mean they would have to take some sort of responsibility for their actions and now we cant have that can we??
Yes I am a woman with a mission and I take it seriously ,you threaten my kids YOU THREATEN ME! Thank you for that line but it is true, I am a Mom and I above all take THAT job seriously.
And if I should find out that a teacher IS bullying someone at ANY school that teacher and the Admin need watch it because I will damn sure make your life a living hell....
Monday, November 15, 2010
DADT
Normally I keep my mouth shut on positions such as this but I can not here, My husband is a soldier in the US Military, and we both agree on this subject and feel that is a waste of time and government money to keep arguing this fact, this would be OUR position on this stupid fight they keep wanting to bring up, If you can do your job, if you can PROTECT my husbands ass when your next to him in that FoxHole then WHAT IS THE PROBLEM??? Just because you have a different sexual agenda and respect those who also do then what is the problem some of the most BRILLIANT people in our country are Gay or Lesbians transgendered WHATEVER, I dont care about who they prefer to love I do give a damn that they DO their job while serving next to MY kids FATHER! but other than that some of my best friends have same sex preference and normally they make better friends than others because we tend not to judge someone so severely as others do, how does this tie into my world now and bullying??? Because there is alot and I mean ALOT of bashing and bullying going on right now in our schools and with the Federal Government doing it to our US Military is the EXACT same thing that is happening to our youth in our school system, Just because you sir sit in Washington does NOT give you permission to bully anyone and JUST because you DONT like their lifestyle choice doesnt give YOU the right to tell them they can NOT have American PRIDE and defend our country we are suppose to be able to choose in the United States, What happened to that and do you really realize just HOW many Military Troops want a person who will stand tall and fight????? It seems that you all in the house are all about you and not about what counts and it makes me sick to my stomach WHO are YOU to JUDGE ANYONE??? Ive earned that right to judge your non slacking asses because My son is dead and the punks still go to school with my older son and niece and still laugh and joke about Christian hanging himself.....now at this moment as we approach 40 deaths since school started , whats more important????
Always and Forever Christians's Mom
Lisa Williams
Always and Forever Christians's Mom
Lisa Williams
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Bully-Cides
How many kids do we have to lose before our Goverment deems this a National Crisis? there are more kids dying everyday, and how sad that more parents have to be thrown into the pain that Myself and my family have to feel as well as Christians friend in Texas and Va.
When I hear that another child has taken their life after being relentlessly pursued by some punk for nothing other than sheer amusement I feel that same feeling all over again, I feel sick to my stomach and immediatly want to scream, my life will never be the same, and in my opinion the school is covering their own ass and it truly makes me sick that my son was there to learn and they are so worried about their own ass they are lying to save it!
YOU YOU ALONE screwed up just admit it and move on, fix what you need to and be done, things might change had they done just that!
As for all the other crap that I have to hear and deal with, Yes it IS the teachers and admin who are responsible for our kids when we send them to school, I have NO POWER whatso ever in school but THEY do, I cant do anything so you who say WHAT ABOUT the PARENT??? WHAT ABOUT ME?? I raised my kids to believe in themselves to march to the beat of their own drum and to pursue the life they want and I pick my battles with my kids what they wear and what they listen to (music wise) arent those battles However , HOW they act in school and their grades ARE! and if they are being bullied constantly HOW ARE they going to learn??? they cant they are too worried about being attacked, ridiculed and tormented and yes that is exactly what the punks did to Christian, and right now I am having to live with what comes around goes around and baby Karma is fixing to kick your ass because you reap what you sow x 10 and I hope I am there to see it because if there is anything I can do it will be smile and let my son know that we are trying......to all the kids who bully in this world I hope you get what you got coming to you because what you did to our kids is total bullcrap and Karma I believe in.......
this is only my opinion......
When I hear that another child has taken their life after being relentlessly pursued by some punk for nothing other than sheer amusement I feel that same feeling all over again, I feel sick to my stomach and immediatly want to scream, my life will never be the same, and in my opinion the school is covering their own ass and it truly makes me sick that my son was there to learn and they are so worried about their own ass they are lying to save it!
YOU YOU ALONE screwed up just admit it and move on, fix what you need to and be done, things might change had they done just that!
As for all the other crap that I have to hear and deal with, Yes it IS the teachers and admin who are responsible for our kids when we send them to school, I have NO POWER whatso ever in school but THEY do, I cant do anything so you who say WHAT ABOUT the PARENT??? WHAT ABOUT ME?? I raised my kids to believe in themselves to march to the beat of their own drum and to pursue the life they want and I pick my battles with my kids what they wear and what they listen to (music wise) arent those battles However , HOW they act in school and their grades ARE! and if they are being bullied constantly HOW ARE they going to learn??? they cant they are too worried about being attacked, ridiculed and tormented and yes that is exactly what the punks did to Christian, and right now I am having to live with what comes around goes around and baby Karma is fixing to kick your ass because you reap what you sow x 10 and I hope I am there to see it because if there is anything I can do it will be smile and let my son know that we are trying......to all the kids who bully in this world I hope you get what you got coming to you because what you did to our kids is total bullcrap and Karma I believe in.......
this is only my opinion......
Friday, November 12, 2010
York County School District, Teachers and Admin
As I sit here missing my son thinking of past thoughts, When I was in school I didnt like my peers, and so it comes to this conclusion as my personal thoughts, If you deem to teach kids and you can NOT see ALL kids as EQUALS DONT BECOME AN EDUCATOR no matter who they are or how they act you are not "ALLOWED" to judge them, I didnt like the kids I went to school with, I dont talk to the kids I went to school with because they bullied me about my looks wieght and being adopted, and with this in mind, My job in my life has not included teaching or being a school administrator, When a person is bullied for ANY reason wether they are thought to be gay lesbian different a jock not a jock a preppy or not or the sheer color of their skin or nationality of themselves their religion WHATEVER the reason that person should they move on and become an adult doesnt EVER forget it, thats right Ronnie, Robby, Tim ,Rhonda,Amy Karen and all those who were totally crass in Massabesic, I didnt like you then and I still havent changed my opinion what I have done is become the person I am teach my kids that while we would love to kick someones ass because they like to put us down, violence isnt the answer you want to hurt the person for the long haul, such as college with something on your records for bullying, you probly WONT get into a top college......or maybe the Military.....definatly not OTS......so remember next time you want to put someone to shame about stupid crap such as the way they dress wear their hair or the music they listen to does their life matter to you REALLY???? if they arent bothering you then WHY do you really have to make yourself look like an idiot?
and to the teachers today, if you can NOT consider all your kids equally with respect then GET OUT! make room for those who can!
Lisa Williams
Christian Taylors Mother
and on a mission to make it safe for ALL to go to school!
and to the teachers today, if you can NOT consider all your kids equally with respect then GET OUT! make room for those who can!
Lisa Williams
Christian Taylors Mother
and on a mission to make it safe for ALL to go to school!
Your 17th Birthday
The morning of your birthday I didnt want to get up, I did though and I went to work, making the chili getting everything ready , Sissy and Hunter didnt want to go to school the others had test to take and had no choice, then I went to the store to get your party stuff, black blue and purple balloons Happy Birthday Balloons with your name Christian, you would love it, black and blue plates and napkins purple trays food coloring and black frosting and blue airbrush food coloring, white cake mix and CHERRIES! yes your favorite cherry cake cherry frosting. only it was a purple cake with purple and black frosting, then Sissy and I stopped at the dollar tree after all Our Fallen from the Nov 5th shooting last year on Fort Hood we cant forget them you told me you would always remember them Red white and blue stars with the 13 Fallen soldiers and civilians names on each after all we are a proud Army family.
I got home and Im running late yes me running late, We get everything ready hang your banner put your pictures up blow up your balloons hang them outside then get the purple black and blue balloons ready . Cake is done we take it and put it in the freezer to cool and then we get people coming over they show up Ryan,Kelleh,Rach,Laura,Jordan Nikki,Mike Sharon,Christina,Matt, Summer, Bubba J ,Ariel, there are some special people missing but they are here in spirit.
Holy COW its 5:54 We rush to get your balloons, pass them out take down the other ones for the Fort Hood Victims( I still remember your call that day frantic about Dad what end of post was he on is he ok he isnt answering his fone and I soothingly tell you He is ok he works on the other end of Fort Hood) we hang up he calls you you breath a sigh of relief.
its 5:58 we let the balloons go they go up and stay together and go to the right, drifting to you Baby Boy My handsome boy is now a man and your not here, you should be though,but because of the punks they took you away from the family who loved you.
I got home and Im running late yes me running late, We get everything ready hang your banner put your pictures up blow up your balloons hang them outside then get the purple black and blue balloons ready . Cake is done we take it and put it in the freezer to cool and then we get people coming over they show up Ryan,Kelleh,Rach,Laura,Jordan Nikki,Mike Sharon,Christina,Matt, Summer, Bubba J ,Ariel, there are some special people missing but they are here in spirit.
Holy COW its 5:54 We rush to get your balloons, pass them out take down the other ones for the Fort Hood Victims( I still remember your call that day frantic about Dad what end of post was he on is he ok he isnt answering his fone and I soothingly tell you He is ok he works on the other end of Fort Hood) we hang up he calls you you breath a sigh of relief.
its 5:58 we let the balloons go they go up and stay together and go to the right, drifting to you Baby Boy My handsome boy is now a man and your not here, you should be though,but because of the punks they took you away from the family who loved you.
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